When it comes to
interviews, presentations, important or personal meetings, and any situation
where you need to make a good impression, looking professional is just as
important as being professional. But looking professional means more than just
having a top-of-the-line briefcase, Italian shoes, the best laptop money can
buy, and a bright smile. Here are some tips you may never
have thought of in the course of your career.
Appearance
Remember that your appearance is how you present yourself to the world, so
you need to take care of yourself. While looks aren't everything, looking nice
and presentable is important for your self esteem. Embrace yourself!
Personality
One of the most important things is to have a good personality. The
following are great qualities to have:
Friendly
Funny
Optimistic
Polite
Respectful
Outgoing
Hard working
Responsible
Honest
Elegant
Be Brief and Conversational
Self-introductions should be short and
conversational. Share something about yourself, then ask a question that
invites the other person to join the conversation.
Notice that self-introductions should be short
and conversational. After sharing very briefly about yourself, you
then ask a question that helps lead your partner into a conversation.
Keep a good
balance of fun, loving and hard working
Have fun, laugh, and smile as
much as you can but remember sometimes it's important to be responsible too.
Realize that in life, bad things will happen, but you have to learn how to
handle those situations and make the best out of it. Think cleverly and always
make the right choice. Being good and doing the right thing is the best policy,
and can also get you rewarded in life. Some good life lessons to remember are:
- Respect your elders.
- When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.
- Always try new things.
- As long as you're happy, it doesn't matter what strangers think.
- Make eye contact
Don't stare down or
at some aimless point in the corner of the room. Move your gaze around the
group to make eye contact with a few people as you speak. If you don't like the
thought of looking into that many eyes, look at their eyebrows or noses - they
won't be able to tell the difference.
Maintain positive body language
Stand up tall, move
your shoulders up instead of slouching, and keep your hands free, using them to
gesture when necessary. If you don't have to stand behind a podium, then walk
around to show the crowd how comfortable you are and to make yourself look less
stiff. Don't be afraid to smile from time to time. It'll show that you're happy
to be there.
Offer a handshake
A firm handshake, once again, demonstrates
your self-confidence. Get the grip just right, though - you don't want break
the other person's hand. Try squeezing slightly with your fingers and not your
thumb, and release the handshake after two or three seconds.
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